You are Maid Of Honor to your best
friend! She is finally tying the not with the
man of her dreams. But,
now you have to give a speech and you urgently need
help with Maid Of Honor Wedding Speeches!
Well, not to worry, here is the help you have been looking for:
Take these tips, fill them in a bit and you're done!
Where To Start what do I need to do first?
The first thing you need to do, is gather the information you will need. Then you make simple notes to jog your memory when you are speaking. Speakers of all good Speeches come prepared!
The kind of information you gather will depend on your relationship to the bride and your relationship with her. Do not pretend that it is different from what it really is.
Make sure you have your facts right and check with the bride about any stories or jokes you plan to use. You have to make very sure the bride and the groom are completely comfortable with what you are going to say.
Always remember, do not offend, do not insult and do not embarrass, first of all the bride and groom, but also the guests. Be aware that there will be children and older members of the family.
Making absolutely sure of this is one of the vital things of all good Maid Of Honor Wedding Speeches! Do not spoil the bride and the groom's day!
Also make sure that you are aware of the general religious beliefs of the guests and how conservative they are. What may be totally acceptable in one group of people may be totally unacceptable in other. Do not take it for granted that the guests are the same as the bride and groom! The General Flow" Maid of honor speeches, how do I put it all together?
Here is the general flow that is best to use:
1. First of all start by introducing yourself
2. Now you thank your friend for the honor of being part of the wedding
3. Do not forget to compliment the bride on how beautiful she looks!
4. Say a little about your connection to the bride and how long you have know each other
5. Maybe tell a little story about your friendship, the tings you got up to
6. Say a little about the groom and how they met
7. Say a little about their relationship and how it developed. Be kind.
8. Tell a funny story about them or a joke, in good taste of course!
9. Now is when you reflect on the ceremony, the importance of it. You can also use a quote or a poem here.
10. Wish them luck and, if you have been asked to, propose a toast to the bride and groom
That's it. You know the secrets to Maid Of Honor Wedding Speeches!
Remember, do not make the speech too long as you will bore the guests. On the other hand, do not make it too short, no less than four minutes. Most of all, enjoy the occasion and enjoy your speech. Good Speeches are always well prepared. Know what you want to say and then say it
