These rings will be the symbol of your love and hopefully you'll have your rings for the rest of your lives, and you may even pass them on to your children. You'll want to be sure you will be happy with your choices.
The Engagement Ring:
Shopping for an engagement ring can be pretty scary. Most guys are not well-versed on the subject of diamonds and jewelry, and it’s not easy to invest a large sum of money in something you know little about.
Here are a few pointers to help you out:
1.Even though some couples go ring shopping together, many men still prefer the old-school way of picking out an engagement ring themselves. But you can still get your sweetie's input if you are paying attention. Even if you think you are surprising her, odds are that she knows something is up and has already dropped a few hints as to what kind of ring she'd like.
2. Make a point of observing the jewelry she wears. If she wears mostly silver or white gold, that should tell you that she'd prefer a band of white gold or platinum.
3. Do not be scared to ask for advice. Ask her girlfriends, sisters, or mom for advice. They might have some useful suggestions. Does she prefer one large solitaire stone or would she like smaller diamonds on each side? What about shape? Does she like round, oval, pear, etc?
4. Remember, it’s very important to go to a reputable jeweler, and make sure they are certified by the Jewelers of America (JA) and the Gemological Institute of America (GIA). I don't recommend ring shopping at the mall. The stones are usually of lesser quality with inflated prices.
5. With a reputable jeweler the ring will have the correct paperwork. Be very sure the ring has its paperwork. You should receive a diamond-grading report from the GIA that clearly indicates its size, shape, clarity, and any imperfections it may have.
Choosing Wedding Bands:
Most people have a good idea of the type of wedding ring they like. Do you just want a simple gold band or would you prefer a band with a design. You can also add diamonds or other gemstones, though that will add to the cost. These days the wedding and engagement rings often come in sets, so when choosing the engagement ring you’ll also get the wedding ring.
In terms of color, the basic choices are yellow gold, white gold, and platinum. Yellow gold is the most traditional ring metal, but platinum and white gold are catching up in the popularity department. The average person can not even tell platinum and white gold apart. They have a similar silver color, though the platinum is heavier and the metal is harder and more durable. Unfortunately it is more expensive as well.
Don't feel as though you have to pick out matching wedding bands. It’s okay if you and your significant other have different tastes when it comes to jewelry. It’s important that you each choose a wedding ring you like and will feel comfortable wearing.
Do take your time when choosing engagement and wedding rings as it is a huge investment and you want to make sure you’re choosing the right rings. You have to love the feel and look of it, but, you must also make sure that you are getting your money’s value and are not paying inflated prices for your wedding and engagement rings. Make sure it is an investment you’ll not regret. Most important of all though, is to make sure the rings suit your taste and that it is a worthy symbol of your love.
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